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I remember there was this gay lad in our English before I came out. I don't see why sexuality dictates personality, but I appreciate that not everyone has had as easy time of acceptance as me and that might change who they are.
Gay guys can be very vicious about lesbians for example and they can be quite cliquey. You call it an open minded community, I find it just the opposite. But because I want someone who is like me, a 'lad' i guess i'm branded a closet case. Everyone knows i'm gay, I had 100% acceptance at school and my mates haven't deserted me. It's not self hating to find them annoying.
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But i'm not going to pretend to find overtly effeminate guys appealing and even endearing. I know a lot about gay rights, I do my reading for my own history, so don't lecture me on that. Why does me being gay make me a more suited candidate? I'm sure if you asked someone on the street "how would you feel about joining a society with people suffering from gender identity issues" they'd say, without having anything against trans people, "why on earth would I do that?".
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Still good luck on finding your "bloke" i'm sure there are many closet cases out there who would love you.īecause I would have no idea how to handle it. The gay world is rainbow hence the flag, the "scene" is not going to alter itself for you. It was those same queens who could not "fit in" with society that marched and suffered for your rights, when your "normal" type were closeted, and now you call them big queens. People with gender issues make you uncomfortable? Sure everybody has their preferences but you sound like a judgemental self righteous ass. I can't get a chance to get a word in at a club ha, and i think i'd find the shirtless guys everywhere a bit more uncomfortable than a turn on. Seems to be where most gay guys here meet. It's just i'm confident when i get talking to people, but not on a club scene so much. I mean straight guys mainly go out when they're single to pull themselves. I know it's bound to be a bit seedy at times. But then I also resent websites like, as if I should embrace the colour pink (used to distinguish girls from boys as baby's) because i'm gay as the community symbol. So when i looked at the society, saw their meetings discussing that issue etc. It's just they're two totally separate things, so I kind of resent that it's thrown together in some cosmopolitan mix. Or trying to devalue the issue, i can't imagine how hard that must be. I don't think I was suggesting that, the quotas weren't an implication toward that. I'd recommend posting in the TSR LGBT soc thread - we've got many regular posters on there, including a few that probably know a thing or two about Manchester.ĭo you have some sort of problem with people with 'unnecessarily quoted' gender identity issues? Just because you're gay doesn't give you the right to discriminate more than anyone else. The gay scene isn't the greatest place to meet the sort of guy you're looking for, really. It needs to be someone that can get on with them like I can. My mates have been completely cool with it, but i could never introduce them to a big queen. I'm a decent looking bloke I think and am a pretty confident speaker with a bit of intelligence, but i'm worrying that my ex was a fluke. Can anyone who's been there tell me i'm wrong i don't know? The LGBT Society (now Q, whatever that means) seems a bit political and tbh i'm uncomfortable being lumped in with people who have 'gender identity' issues. I feel if that puts me off, it probably puts my type off. The gallery from clubs are just filled with either old guys, insanely muscly guys shirtless all night or overly camp guys soaked in fake tan. I know Canal Street is the obvious answer, but it looks so.gay. I'm in my comfort zone when i'm with 'lads' and I cannot stand camp.
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My problem is everyone assumes i am straight and i'm not very good at broadcasting otherwise. If he wasn't so self-hating with family issues it might've worked out!Īnyway, i'm looking for that again. Very good looking, funny and got on well with all my friends. I broke up with a guy i met in school by sheer chance we connected and got together. I'm a student in Manchester, 2nd year (well first, took year out).